Welcoming the opportunity for meaningful parenting

While the declining Total Fertility Rate 2023 for Singapore falls below 1, it poses challenges and socio-economic risks, including an aging population and potential labour shortages. However, the decision to become parents remains profoundly personal beyond addressing demographic pressures.

Also, encouraging parenthood based on individual choices brings significant societal benefits. When the decision to become parents is made based on intrinsic values, couples are more emotionally and mentally prepared to embrace parenthood from cradle to grave. This not only ensures a more stable and nurturing environment for the children but also contributes to the overall well-being of our society. After all, having children is for life, not only during their growing years.

Being ready and committed to nurturing their children with the right family values also allows parents to impart the wisdom and life lessons they have acquired in the present. This ensures the children's preparedness for the future, strengthening Singapore's socio-economic fabric. While achieving an ideal TFR of 2.1 is important, we must also focus on the quality of upbringing for the future generation.

Monetary incentives and comprehensive family support policies in the community and workplace are already in place to support family planning. Family interest groups like I Love Children and the Fertility Support Group also provide community support. The next task is to change societal attitudes about parenthood. 

The concept of family is already profoundly ingrained across all cultures, much more so among Asians. Layering an educational campaign above the familial concept, spotlighting the pride and fulfilment of raising a family through good and bad times, can help set a grounded view and alleviate anxieties associated with parenting. Providing platforms for young parents to share their experiences and offer peer support can significantly change perceptions. After all, what's success if that story is not passed on to the next generation, like how we all learn from our forefathers? 

In conclusion, while addressing the declining TFR is essential, respecting individual choices regarding parenthood is equally crucial. These choices are not just about numbers on a population chart but about each individual's hopes and life goals. Let us also focus on creating an environment that encourages and empowers individuals to embrace their decisions about family planning. Whether by natural or medical assistance, these decisions should be celebrated and supported instead of allowing the socio-economic risks to overshadow the intrinsic joy of parenting and the opportunity for meaningful parenting.